LONDON – A United Kingdom couple’s marriage of 17 years is on the verge of collapse after naked pictures of a pregnant girlfriend leaked to the family through social network Yahoo.
The marriage between Esther Mukonde, 39, and Lobels Chavhunduka, 40, is shaking after pictures of Lobels’ pregnant Highfield girlfriend one Cyria Chatiza-Cindy (said to be 27) leaked on the family’s computer.
Cindy is sending endless naked pictures to Lobels who she claims is her lover. She also insists that she is an official second wife.
Speaking to H-Metro, the wife in the UK opened up and said that she is stressed over the sad development.
“Yes, my husband went to Zim in August last year for four weeks and met that prostitute who became pregnant straight away. So she has been sending (naked) pictures to my husband knowing that he is a married man,” she said.
“Ndakazvibata in October kuti he was having an affair with this woman after ndaona some nude pictures which was saved on our PC. I then spoke to him (Lobels) akati akange amunyepera kuti haana mukadzi.”
Esther confirmed that the pictures leaked after her husband downloaded them on their PC.
“My husband downloaded the pictures onto our computer and they are in love but he lies to me. I even have recent photos asingaite.”
She also added that she has tried by all means to stop Cindy from communicating with Lobels.
“She is sending the pictures maybe to impress him; I’ve told her to stop sending those pictures ndine vana mumwe wacho he is a teenager ndiye anototi mama huyai muone zviripa computer.”
Esther said that their relationship has been shaky since the beginning of this affair.
“In Feb takatombosiyana coz of that murume wangu akauya akati sorry ndakangofarisa pandakaenda kuZim, ndaive ndakadhakwa handichazviite futi musikana akaenda and we have been married 17 years,” said Esther.
The pictures are sent through Yahoo and they are automatically downloaded on to the family’s PC and Lobels is not very familiar with IT. At one point Esther is said to have confronted Cindy on the phone:
“Akatondituka zvinonyadzisira akati futi she doesn’t want to know me after ndamuudza kuti the man is married.
“Isusu tirikudanana even though he is cheating on me I am not ready to lose him, tainetsana ndosaka takazomboenda on separation but it was for a short time achibva anditeera achiti anondida and he doesn’t want at lose me.
“Tirikuwirirana at the same time achibva anditeera achiti anondida and he doesn’t want to lose me. Tirikuwirirana at the same time achindivhara,” Esther said.
Lobels visited Zimbabwe from August 6 to September 5 last year and that was his only visit since Esther invited him to UK in February 2004.
“She is ruining my marriage. She doesn’t even work: she only goes to western union to collect money. He pays rentals and does everything for her ini ndichifa ne kuchengeta mhuri kuno,” fumed Esther.
She further blasted Cindy as a woman of loose morals:
“Anenge hure, ane mumwe mwana waakaitiswa nemurume wemunhu futi, asi murume wangu arikuti arikuzvinetsa hameno kuti sei achitumira mapic asi ndikamuti ngaamuustope anongoti I can’t stop her.” Esther even advised Cyria’s mother to tell her daughter:
“Amai vemusikana uyu ndakavaudza kuti mwana wavo anodanana ne mureme wangu vakandituka vakati futi siyana neni pedzerana nemurume wako ikoko, usandifonere futi.”
Lobels, who is turning 40 this month failed to say much but only threatened this reporter.
“It’s not about the comment; I don’t know anything about it, ndezvekunyepa izvozvo. Ati muzviite izvozvo ndiani iyeye, but handisi kuda kuti muite story yacho, ndipe pekuti ndikunyorere kuti handisi kuda kuti muzviite,” he said.
But his wife is one tormented soul; “I went through a lot and I am always stressed because of him and he even tried to sell our property in Zimbabwe behind my back achida kutengera munhu uyu imba asi ndakazozvibata, akati anga achazondiudza but vanga vakutosayinirana maagreement of sale nemumwe property developer weikoko.
“Ndatambura vahanzvadzi imba yakutoda kuparara he is planning to go to Zim in August. I think anoshandisa mushonga, anopa reasons ekuuya kwake kumusha but I’m sure kuuya kuhure iri,” said Esther.
It is reported that the two met in South Africa at the airport whilst Lobels was on transit on his way to Zimbabwe in August and Cindy is said to have been working for a duty free shop in SA.
She is believed to have resigned from work aiming to get pounds from Lobels via Western Union. Lobels could not comment on the pregnancy but his wife confirmed.
“Anoti inhumbu yake aitoti mwana akazvarwa anomuunza kuno kuti agare nevamwe vake, he wants to use me kuti ndichengete mwana iyeye ivo vachidanana zvavo. However, H-Metro contracted Cindy from her base in Highfield and she claimed to be the official second wife.
“She invaded our privacy and read the messages in my lover’s yahoo account. Akainvader yahoo yemunhu, akatsvaga makudo mugomo akamawana.
“I am the second wife, I did not know that there was someone ini, ndakanyengwa ndikanyeperwa. Asi imbondiudza kuti chii chinoita kuti murume atsvage mumwe mukadzi iye akaroora,” she added.
She also indicated that when she met Lobels he was in sober mind.
“He was sober when I met him not what she is saying kuti ainge akadhakwa, vanhu vanotaura kwavasina kuswera. I met him in UK long back and we started communicating on Facebook, ndikataura zvimwe anotozorwadziwa worse.”
“Baba wake iye murume wedu uyu vaiva nebarika and he has paid something and he will finish it soon. Unoziva chii isusu vanhukadzi pane zvakawanda zvatinotadzira varume. Akamboita chihure, murume wake ndiye akatondinyenga,” said Cindy.
Cindy further said Esther even threatened to take her to H-Metro:
“Ndimaiguru wangu, ndivo vaHosi, I left my job because nhumbu iyoyi yaitondinetsa.”
Asked on why she sends the pics to the hubby, Cindy said:
“Zvakafanana nekuti iwewe une musikana wako, obva akusendera mapics unoti abva kupi, he is my love. He told me not to talk to amaiguru.
“Mdara ndiye akati anoda kuona dumbu ndosakandaisender mapicstures aya, ndezvevarume izvi hazvisi zvevakadzi, but are the photos nude? Ndakanyengwawo, ndikadawo sezvinongoitawo vakadzi vese.
“I am not destroying her marriage and he is coming in August after he failed in April, I told her that I am here to stay ndosaka akatsamwa. I think the problem with their marriage is haadi kuuya kumusha and she was ill-treating her husband sometime back,” Cindy said.
The couple is blessed with three children and some are scared of using the computer because of the images they usually come across. Esther is a qualified nurse whilst her husband is a ‘gambler’ who lied to Cindy that he is a doctor.
H-Metro learnt it that Esther and Lobels tied the knot at the magistrates’ court and the latter paid his lobola in full. Meanwhile Cindy is expecting the baby anytime from now. H Metro
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