Vice President Constantino Chiwenga’s estranged wife Mary Mubaiwa said her pain of not seeing her children for more than three years and not being allowed to travel outside the country to seek medical care sometimes create “thoughts of committing suicide – and don’t be surprised if I do”.
“Especially not seeing my children is very painful to me. Sometimes I start having thoughts of committing suicide and don’t be surprised if I do. I have not spoken to my kids and I have not seen them since 2019,” she said in an interview with Pindai Dube For The Sunday Times (SA).
Mubaiwa, who had her arm amputated a few weeks ago after a court forbade her from travelling to South Africa for medical treatment, said she is living in great pain due to being alienated from her children.
Mubaiwa and Chiwenga got married in 2011 under traditional rites. They have two sons and a daughter.
The marriage collapsed in 2019 when she was arrested for allegedly disconnecting the former Army General’s life-support machine while he was receiving treatment in a South African hospital.
She was acquitted by a Harare magistrate last week on charges of assaulting her children’s nanny.
Mubaiwa told the Sunday Times that she is living an unhappy life.
“I spent nights and days crying, asking God: ‘Why did you let this happen to me?’ Everything I am accused of, I didn’t do it”
“I am not well at all and I feel that if I had gone out of the country to seek better treatment I would be better, but the court refused to give me my passport as part of bail conditions,” she said.
The former model added: “Especially not seeing my children is very painful to me. Sometimes I start having thoughts of committing suicide and don’t be surprised [if I do]. I have not spoken to my kids and I have not seen them since 2019.
“In a couple of days, it will be my daughter and my son’s birthdays. I have not spoken to them even over the phone.
“My lawyers have written to (Chiwenga’s) lawyers many times for me to get access to my children but that has not helped.”
She added that her children had nothing to do with her dispute with Chiwenga and she was supposed to get access to them.
“Our children have nothing to do with what is happening between us … These are young children. I always ask myself what he says to them about me. These are kids who need their mother.”
She maintains that she is innocent.
“I spent nights and days crying, asking God: ‘Why did you let this happen to me?’ Everything I am accused of, I didn’t do it,” she said.
“Right now, I am so sick. I am having challenges with my legs that are swollen and so painful and the doctors told me after the amputation of my right arm that my body has too much fluid.
“I stay at my parents’ home because I have nothing. I don’t have a house and even a car, so I am under my parents’ care. I have a well-equipped clinic which I had built from my personal funds in Domboshava (outside Harare) but I was blocked from accessing it,” Mubaiwa said
😔…so sad
So?
Mlilo Joyinani she is overwhelmed
Munyaradzi Mufara Ok
Hang in there it shall well one morning
If you do who stands to benefit my dear, think again and repent for the good Lord will surely heal and console you. It’s not the end of the world read the book of Job and you will see that your afflictions are not that bad.
Lawrence Shungu 😹😹😹😹😹
GBV being perpetrated at the highest level. May it be a stark warning to all ladies that these politicians will use you and abuse you and discard you as well then on top of all that trump fake charges against you, incarcerate you without fair trail.
Dominic Alifinali what did she do?
Lungelwe Ndlovu Nothing wrong she mothered his children then they had a fallout.
Murume wake ngaburitse Sikhala then l will put my signature on their dirvoce
Kwakuda kuzviitisa uko
Don’t do tht Mary kwawabva ndokure ipamwari nyaya yako uye iwee batsira Zimbabwe Taura zvese zvaiitwa nezvidhara izvi uchagara nazvo expose thm .I thnk u know zvese .ukadaro mwari vanomuitira nyasha .
Don’t do that pray asking Jesus to come into your life and give you peace of mind stay blessed .
Zvinei nesu izvozvo
This is a message to all those who support ZANU PF and this includes Jonathan Moyo who has joined the masses in exile
everyone under Zanu pf is suffering the same situation….ramba wakashinga
Ko isu tinokwanawo papi
Dont do that… We are going to get read of thay come 2023… It will be a free nation… Register to vote..
It pains a lot but we are near now…
Nero muoffice CCC
If you commit suicide you will go straight to hell and that’s a fact.its better you seek our Lord ‘s mercy maybe one day you will be free
Anoda kuzviuraya haatauri
Fortune Hungwe ngangoite action
Anozvisungirira haataure, tsamaya Marry
Guys think before you comment mangwana ndiwe
Maimboti wani ndimi mune chimuti waakuda kunzwirwa tsitsi nemoyo wawange wave nawo here but anywhere God will heal you and intervene in your troubles
It all started when she tried to eliminate her ex husband & forge their marriage certificate
No sympathy for her she did this to herself
Pamaitamba kutonga kwaro maiti zvopera nepi reap what you soar
Emmanuel Morgan Madziva taura hako akatombodya Mari dzakaita kuti vanhu titambure asi haana kumbozvifunga nhasi shiri yabvuta rekeni
Emmanuel Morgan Madzivaeveryone deserves a second chance. Chero muri imi maingofarawo. Zviriko
He who Lough’s last loughs longer maybe its her or maybe it’s shingi
Emmanuel Morgan Madziva taura hako
Zanu ikuworora vene vayo
Ààaaaaaaa úkuda kuti tiite sei ñe information íyi nhai Meraldo ?
Isu atina abroad yatiñorwapwa be like other Zimbabweans unoshamisira chiiko iwe ?
Vanhu hombo vakanoforera mabàsa Joni,UK, Australia vane ma 10years vasati vawona vana vavo çz of poliçies you helped implement
Ñdikoko mother imbozvinzwaiwo 🤣🤣 hatina tsítsi dzekutambisa tichipa iwe isu
Ska uchaita sei kana wazviiuraya
What could she have done to chiwenga for him to be so heartless, did she want to kill him?
Wasakara nacho chihure nekuda mari nxa
Adii kujamba boarder hake anorapwa, anofunga kuti vese vari Joni vane mapaper kani
Shinga sa Shingi
Tatomirira kunzwa kuti wazviuraya kkk urikunonokerei
Pawaitiza Shingi uchipa beche rake Kuna Guvheya waiiti
Vaye vanomirira madzimai muripi
Zvebasa reiko ko ukango commita suicide yacho wakanyarara unobvei inga ZANU yenyu ndoichiri kutonga wani handiti ndokutonga kwaro kwamaidai kujakivha zuva rese kumarally 😏😏😏😏
Chiwenga will pay one day
Benjamin Mhute Mary arikurangwa naMwari
Rabbeca Mutanga akaita sei
Benjamin Mhute Mary anezvaakaita zvakaipa kuvanhu maybe hamuzivi history yake
Rabbeca Mutanga Sure hre
Benjamin MhuteBenjamin Mhute yaa
Sak achasunungurwa zvake kna mwari wake achida
Shingi kawondera aida kuzviuraya wamuwachisawo
Emotional abuse and cold cruelty.
Everyone dies but suicide die fast when you dinned with devils it was nice
Suicide is a form of murder – premeditated murder. It isn’t something you do the first time you think of doing it. It takes getting used to. And you need the means, the opportunity, the motive. A successful suicide demands good organization and a cool head, both of which are usually incompatible with the suicidal state of mind.Suicide is a form of murder – premeditated murder. It isn’t something you do the first time you think of doing it. It takes getting used to. And you need the means, the opportunity, the motive. A successful suicide demands good organization and a cool head, both of which are usually incompatible with the suicidal state of mind.
Tue Zanu pf people are so heartless Chiwenga can’t even think that she was his wife I wonder what exactly happened
Mudara achawuyya
vanongoshota ndevekwa Mubaiwa bt at least vakambodyawo. kana aguta sadza ngaafe hake musikana
kudai makavaka zvipatara panguva iya chihure chichabhadhara kudai morapwa
None of our business
No you should have thought about suicide when you were with him living the high life and oppressing others
The Lord still loves you
Kumba kwenyu ndimi munoshota ukazviuraya.
We will hold Chiwenga responsible for tht kana nguva yakwana
Then hell will be your destine , you don’t know that 80 % of the nation are living like you under this poor leadership,no medicine in hospitals , school fees it’s a headache , potholes everywhere loriesare still being used as transport,no Zesa, judiciary system collapsed, everything is very expensive.
Kana zvichidai pamuti munyoro
Shingi’s prayers are answered,wakamurwadzisa for the sake of money .forged his signature to confirm divorce…
Freedom Sharara chivi chinoteera mwene wacho vanhu vanokangamwa kuti akambotoda kudzimira chiwenga machine kuti afe
Rabbeca Mutanga akaregerei
Billy Paringira akabatwa
the world needs HOPE,,everywhere is too much sadness
-sometimes id say enough protecting devils
Usazviuraye kwawabva ndokure urinani urikurwarira mu suburb une macaregiver madoctors anouya achikupa injection kumba ku court unoenda ne range rover uchiriparinani vana varibhoo vakakura vachakutsvaga.
If God was unforgiving as some people in this country hakuna nyama yairarama. People allow evil spirit to run supreme in there life and do the unthinkable to others
Aiwa Mwari inzwirai mwana wenyu- this woman has gone to hell and back. I know she dined with the devils, did bad things but I am sure she has learned the hardest way. What good is life if one has to suffer like this. I hope and pray her situation changes. Let this be a lesson to most of us women and wanting to be with these powerful, monied men. Munhu ne munhu should panda for themselves
Makanonoka sisi dai makatozviita kare
When we say we want change for better Zimbabwe people will ignore that msge even if you’re zanu pf if zim is like this oneday you cry because the ground is not level
Dai wakaramba unaShingi pasina zvose izvo, yekuda mari iyi, Even yr porents failed to advice u
What’s so special about you….. Enda kuParerenyatwa usatinyaudze
Ngaanorapwa kuGomo uko
Just hang on ,2023 things will change ,change is coming ,God is with in it
So painfull
The clinic was built by Chiwenga’s funds but you should have access to it as a citizen.
Makanocherana nerovambira mhai
dont hang yourself my sister God loves you
Ngatidakwei
Aaaa benzi hanya nani chero ukazviuraya ndomubairo wechihure
Dai usina kusiya shingi ungadai usina kudzwonyoka Ruomo uye unevana
💃💃💃zvaiwana ngwarati
Women and women organisations have let you down, failed to support you and fight for your freedom and rights as a woman. But saying that, on the other hand you failed to support young girls ,children in need and women in the time of your good life when you had the power and opportunity to do so as a wife of high profile figure in Zimbabwe. God help us all 🤔🤔🤔
You are a strong woman, 3 years?
Isiah 48:22
Ndozvawairambira Shingi uchiti wapinda muupfu idya izvozvo zvekwa Chiwenga
We don’t even care
Aaaah waona kuda zvinhu zvakunoita relationship inodaro wakasiya murume anga ariboe ukati unodasvoja manje chirikwako misodzi yaEdzai haiwiri pasi waona paya pawanga uri kuchipatara ndaingoti daipora agozorangari waida ravhu yechigandangaka
Bible shoko ramwari rinoti unokohwa chaunodyara.wakarwadzisa Shingi kawoendera uchida mbinga.ausati watanga kusvika wati soryy
Zvakupisa tsitsi but pamaiti kutonga kwaro future yevana veZimbabwe maimboifunga here
Mubairo wezvivi rufu . Maresults chihure.
You are a lesson to everyone, greedness
Before you commit suicide please tell us what you know about Chiwenga
Suicide is a brain of nonsense bcz who suffers?
Anozviziva hake Kuti havatye kuuraya ko kuzoti kuzviuraya
ISU hatina arikutirambidza kuona Vana asi nekuda kwenyika yamakauraya takafanana asi Hausa wambonzwa tichiisa mathreats ekuzipfuudza s
Now we are equally yoked rapwa paGomo pari kungorapwa came kunze kwenyika kunoitei
“Getting treatment from outside” ko munomu zvaramba here kana kuti panezvukuitika
You chose your bed , sleep on it . No-one chose it for you. Ladies be warned money and power is not everything. Every dog has its own day.
I hope other kids get some lifetime lessons from you
I can provide the rope or the rat poison for u, u left someone who loved u for money now u want everyone to sympathise with u.