A Zimbabwean lesbian couple who exchanged vows in a civil ceremony in the UK last year are now embroiled in scandal after one of them posted a video exposing the moment her partner cheated on her with another woman.
The video already posted to social networking site You Tube was shot at a house in Manchester which is shared by Nicky Chigoba Chalenga and her lesbian partner, Chido Chalenga.
Nicky walks in to find her partner pleasuring their married friend, Brenda Muchi Soko, with their sex toys. Nehanda Radio understands Brenda is the sister of popular DJ and presenter Peter C Soko, one half of the Tim 2 Soxx entertainment group.
Nicky, with her mobile video camera rolling, confronts the pair. “Brenda what are you doing in my house, and with Chido in my bed? What’s going on guys?,” she asks the shamed cheaters.
Chido stares at her while Brenda, who lives with her husband nearby, covers herself with a duvet. Her voice cracking with emotion, Nicky pulls the duvet from the two while continuing her running commentary.
“Using our sex toys? Haa? What’s going on guys? Brenda, how could you? Chido, how could you? What’s going on? Is this the love you were talking about Brenda? With our sex toys?”
As Chido scrambles to cover herself with a pillow, Nicky then introduces the cheating pair to “everyone”.
“Hi everyone, this is my wife and our so-called friend Brenda Muchi Gadzi Soko, Ngoni Gadzira’s wife, with my partner Chido Chalenga in bed,” she says before the video terminates.
Its reported Nicky is denying sharing the video and claims she only sent it to Brenda’s husband Ngoni Gadzira.
Writing on her facebook wall Nicky appeared to want to move on from the incident saying;
“When you hold resentment, hate and anger toward another, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel.
“Forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and get free.”
Brenda, who was a member of a woman-only Facebook group called ‘Dandaro NemaGirls’, said: “I am sure you are all aware of what has happened, everything is now in the public eye and and I’m sorry to everyone on the group and the parties involved, my family and close friends.
“I must take complete responsibility for my actions both public and private… As much as I wanted this to just go away and handle it privately, I can’t.
“It has come out that I had an inappropriate relationship with a friend’s partner, it’s true. I’m sorry for the hurt that has been caused and I take full responsibility. It was wrong… I am human and make mistakes and this is one of them.”
Nicky and Chido are among the first Zimbabwean lesbians anywhere in the world to enter into a civil partnership. They have a child together via a sperm donor. Additional reporting by New Zimbabwe.com
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